[MTHCA, IBAL] added FMR support; [MTHCA] 1. fixed (and now works) "livefish" support;

[MTHCA, IBAL] added FMR support; [MTHCA] 1. fixed (and now works) "livefish" support;
2. fixed (and now works) multiple HCA support;
3. support of work of 32-bit tools with 64-bit kernel;
4. support *bad_wr parameter in post/recv verbs as optional;
5. make the wait on a command completion alertable for user processes;
6. improve the vstat output for multiple cards;
7. bugfix: remove QP numbers from the user mode table before they are removed from the kernel;

git-svn-id: svn://openib.tc.cornell.edu/gen1/trunk@373 ad392aa1-c5ef-ae45-8dd8-e69d62a5ef86